With Patrick Mosher
My boss and I were sitting in the client cafeteria. Lunch long over, we chose a private table near the big windows. We had just finished a great workshop with a potential client. Spirits were high.
In consulting, we rarely got 1:1 face-to-face time with our bosses. Especially at the partner level. So this was a great opportunity to have a career conversation.
I considered how to ask it. At some point, you’ve probably labored over this same question.
“What do I need to do to get promoted to the next level?”
As he leaned back, I imagined all sorts of responses:
But his answer took me aback.
“I don’t think you have what it takes. You need Sharp Elbows”
What does that mean?
A friend introduced me to a video about the Meaning of Money. Wealth Advisors talk about hitting your ‘number’ which is the wealth you need to accumulate to retire.
Do you know your number?
In the video, the speaker defines money as a contract for the future. Money is a device for moving value across space and time.
He talks about five fundamental components of money. Money must have:
What stuck out for me was that money needed to have Scarcity. The rarest resources hold the most value. Diamonds and gold. Money is a way to accumulate a scarce resource so you can trade it in the future for what you want.
Okay, so that’s money and why you need to accumulate a pile of it as a scarce resource.
A great Pile O’ Money allows you to buy what you want....
Recently, I visited two friends in Colorado. Brother and sister, living across the street from each other, they are close. I’ve known them both over 20 years. It’s always a pleasure to visit them and enjoy the clean fresh Colorado air and those beautiful mountains! Such a treat!
On this particular visit, I have the pleasure of spending the evening with their community. About 13 of us in all. We share a meal in the backyard. Potluck .. so a smorgasbord of unique recipes. Delectable and (for me) exotic tastes.
As dinner around the picnic tables winds down, I head for the small fire to warm my hands. I sit alone in silence, staring into the fire. You know how that goes, right? It’s a meditation, watching the fire dance. Eventually, another person meanders over and sits down across from me. And then another. ...
On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate HARMONY in the world right now? 1 = low. 10 = high.
I've asked my friends, family and my Wisdom 4 Humanity community this question and most rate World Harmony pretty low right now.
There's so much going on! No need to drag you down by listing them.
My next question typically is, "So what are you doing to raise World Harmony?"
I asked a colleague. Very conscious human being. Socially responsible. Acutely aware of what's happening in the world.
His heart is breaking.
"Where do I begin? I’m overwhelmed. Whatever I do won’t make a difference. And I’m so busy with EVERYTHING I can’t do ANYTHING. My To Do List is full. One more thing will break me. Just BREAK me."
I could feel a combination of tears mixed with anger bubbling up.
"Any action I take is small. Too small to...
Imagine the sound of a HUGE motor of your garbage truck, roaring in right front of you. Try to imitate it's sound. Go ahead, do it out loud. You stop in front of the house and load up their garbage, wondering, 'what treasures are they throwing away?' With just a twitch of your finger, you push the button and all that stuff mashes into mush. Power, Baby! And you get a whiff and wrinkle your nose. Smell it? You hit the gas and rev up that engine as you go to the next house. Put on the brakes to slow down and stop this massive machine. As you hit the brakes, they squeal with a high-pitch that makes you wince. Can you make that sound?
If you followed along, you just entered the world of a 5 year-old, playing with his garbage truck. It's a sensorial experience!
When I was a kid, we collected and played for hours with our Matchbox cars. Matchbox cars came in little boxes that actually look like matchboxes. ...